Jami Attenberg / All Grown Up

Wednesday, March 22, 2017 - 7:30pm

I’m alone. I’m a drinker. I’m a former artist. I’m a shrieker in bed. I’m the captain of the sinking ship that is my flesh.

Andrea Bern is a whip-smart woman in NYC “who is doing what she wants with her life, right or wrong, and not apologizing for it… at times she is a wise sage, and at other times, a selfish mess. It makes her so achingly human” (Liberty Hardy, Book Riot). Andrea’s single, she’s childfree, she’s successful and yet not entirely devoted to her career. Everyone around her seems to have an entirely different idea of what it means to be an adult: marriage, babies, ambition. But what if those things aren’t what you want? What does it actually mean to be a woman and a grown up, in this day and age? 

Andrea’s brother seems unscathed by their shared tumultuous childhood, but when he and her sister-in-law have a baby born with a heartbreaking ailment, Andrea and her family have to confront everything they haven’t wanted to face, and reexamine what really matters. In a world that still expects women to gravitate toward partnership and motherhood, Jami Attenberg gives us a pithy and sharp novel of living life on your own terms, and a character who is witty, winning, sexy and complicated.

Join us as we host the inimitable Jami Attenberg, in conversation with Alexis Coe!





“Jami Attenberg’s sharply drawn protagonist, Andrea, has such a riveting, propulsive voice that All Grown Up is hard to put down, but I urge you to resist reading it in one sitting. Both the prose and the author’s knowing excavation of one woman’s desires, compromises, strengths, and fears deserve closer attention. Like Andrea herself, this novel is beautiful and brutal, intelligent and funny, frank and sexy.” — Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney, New York Times best-selling author of The Nest

“Hilarious, courageous, and mesmerizing from page one, All Grown Up is a little gem that packs a devastating wallop. It’s that rare book I’m dying to give all my friends so we can discuss it deep into the night. I’m in awe of Jami Attenberg.” — Maria Semple, author of Where’d You Go, Bernadette

“Jami Attenberg’s Andrea is the most addicting female protagonist voice I have read in years, with her cutting observations on human relationships. This witty journey through a mess of men, female friendships, family, and boozy urban existence positions the single girl not as object to be fixed but as contemporary sage and seer: the ultimate witness of truth in love today.” — Melissa Broder, author of So Sad Today





Jami Attenberg is the New York Times best-selling author of five novels, including The Middlesteins and Saint Mazie. She has contributed essays about sex, urban life, and food to the New York Times Magazine, the Wall Street Journal, the Guardian, and Lenny Letter, among other publications.






RSVP appreciated but not required. If you cannot attend the event, but would like to request a signed copy of All Grown Up, The MiddlesteinsSaint Mazie, or another of Jami's books, please order below and put your request in the comments field. 




All Grown Up Cover Image
ISBN: 9780544824249
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Houghton Mifflin - March 7th, 2017

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Saint Mazie Cover Image
ISBN: 9781455599905
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Grand Central Publishing - June 14th, 2016

The Middlesteins Cover Image
ISBN: 9781455507207
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Grand Central Publishing - June 4th, 2013

The Melting Season Cover Image
ISBN: 9781594484995
Availability: Special Order - Subject to Availability
Published: Riverhead Books - January 4th, 2011

The Kept Man Cover Image
ISBN: 9781594483516
Availability: Out of Stock - Usually Ships in 1-5 Days
Published: Riverhead Books - January 6th, 2009

Instant Love: Fiction Cover Image
ISBN: 9780307337832
Availability: Out of Stock - Usually Ships in 1-5 Days
Published: Broadway Books - April 24th, 2007